God absolutely understands what you are going through when you are hurt. But you must absolutely give your hurt up to Him in order for Him to help. He isn't distant from us, but in fact came to us in Jesus. He feels our pain and our hurts, but He still invites us to receive His peace in our hearts. "Cast your cares on the Lord and He will sustain you; He will never let the righteous be shaken" (Psalm 55:22).